Awe and Aww
Crushes: The Signs
Through not-so-personal expirience (A.K.A. evesdropping, websurfing, and some pesky peers) I've learned a few shocking facts, a few interesting theorys, and general "romance" mishap. I am about to share my knowledge. It is NOT TOO LATE TO TURN BACK if you'd rather not know these things. For those of you that do... read on.
My apologies for a slight error on this page. Before, I had both what girls like, and what guys like, but I've changed that now. In the "What guys like" I had a story of what NOT to do. After putting it on, I realised that I've seen guys do that too, and girls were taking offence in what was written. I removed both parts. Maybe one day they will be put back, but as for now, FORGET ABOUT IT. Anyway.
These were reasearched, but aer not always valid. Some signs you notice might not be crush-related, and not all are always in effect. So if you notice these signs, it MAY be a coincidence. A way to make it more acurate, is to go through the list and count how many signes your admirer shows: guys have 9 signs, girls have 10. The more they have, the more likely it is!
♂ Guys | ♀ Girls |
Guys try to find out lots of things about the girl they like | Girls uncontiously "mime" the guys movement |
Guys try to spend lots of time with the girl they like | Girls try to do things they know the guy likes |
Guys joke about the girl they like (names, etc.) | Girls will make no sense when they try talking to the guy they like |
Guys like to know what the girl they like is upto all the time | Girls try to take peeks at the guy they like |
Guys are shy at first | Girls keep watching the guys lips |
Girls engage the guy in pointless arguments | |
Their pupils dilate when you look into their eyes. | |
Find them looking in your direction | |
They brush-up to the person they like | |
They blush when talking to the person they like(the more the crush, the bigger the blush) | |
Now, all this seems interesting, remember one important thing about love: Love is not going nuts over somebody... thats lust. Love is (in my opinion) an appreciation for somebody for something they have done in your life. That makes love seem much more general, but that is what you have to follow when thinking about if its true love or just lust. Ask yourselves the following:
A)If the person was of my gender, would I still be friends with them? (Yes: good. No: Bad.)
B)If the person just wants to kiss you and thats it... bad. If they talk to you like they would abybody else and its not ALL about romance? Good.
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